Not heard any more from the married man. Just as well really, that one is best over before it begins.
Getting in the holiday mood now. In case you haven't guessed. I've only mentioned it in the past half a dozen blogs.
Went to Austria in May with the ex. I couldn't bring myself to get excited about it, because we had planned to go to Prague in March and he dumped me two weeks before. I still went, with a friend, and had a great time in a beautiful city. But I was upset, and had issues going on with another ex - THE ex (A - who is technically not an ex, as we never actually went out, but after over 2 years of crap from him I think he qualifies). We still never sorted things out, and within weeks I was back with the ex who dumped me before Prague and he had talked me into booked another holiday.
I was very dubious, as we had only been back together a couple of weeks. But I gave in and spent the next few weeks anxiously awaiting the end of May. I only started to relax once we were on our way to the airport. I was convinced he was going to back out right at the last minute. However, my relief didn't last long.
Austria was lovely, the views were amazing and I had a great time taking hundreds of photos. Not such a great time walking about 8 miles in boots too small for me and in great pain. Or falling thigh deep in snow, on the top of a mountain and worrying we were going to get stranded. It would have been funny, and I would have laughed instead of the slightly manic crying that was going on, if not for the selfish and unsympathetic boyfriend who accused me of wasting time and messing around.
We got on for the rest of the holiday, because we had to, but by the time we got back I knew it was over. He had to have his own way too much, too controlling.
I broke up with him - though it took him a week to answer his phone to let me do the deed, so I'm pretty sure he wasn't too keen on me by that point either!
I've seen him once since - I went round for a cup of tea and to swap hoiday photos. He was trying to be charming, and tried it on. Turning him down was a brilliant feeling.
So I'm going for third time lucky with the holidays, hopefully we will get to Ibiza in one piece with no fall outs, though as its just me and my best mate going I think all will be fine.


